
Photo by Grant Legan
For some it means chocolates or flowers
and for others it means black noodles or book signings. Either way,
most countries have given at least one day a year to the best feeling
there is, Love! Here is Dreame’s round-up of the most fascinating and adorable celebrations of love around the world.
China:
Date: 7th day of 7th month on the Chinese Calendar, August 20th, 2015
The Qixi Festival, “Chinese Valentine’s Day, “ celebrates a day
remembering a famous cowherder, Niu Lang, and a weaving maid, Zhi Nu,
were finally allowed to be together after a tumultuous courtship. It is a
romantic tale of kindred hearts, a symbolic story for the celebration of love.
In Chinese culture, there is an observance for lovers, called ‘The
Night of Sevens.’ According to the legend, the Cowherd star and the
Weaver Maid star are separated by the Milky Way but are allowed to meet
by crossing the stars only on the 7th day of the 7th month of the
Chinese calendar.
Customs include women preparing delicious fruits to offer Zhi Nu,
widely regarded as a beautiful women who is apt at sewing, in order to
be endowed with the masterly sewing skill. Women are also hoping to be
granted with a sweet love like Zhi Nu. The Elderly often orally
transpose this tale of love to the young. While this legend is still
known in rural towns, it is considered archaic in China’s cities.
Magda’s dream artified by Egle
Finland:
Date: February 14th, 2015
Ystävänpäivä “friends day” celebrating your friends. It is not
romantic in nature. Its core value lies in the celebration of friends.
Rather than gifting chocolates and cards to a significant other, you
spend the day showering your friends with gifts to show your love and admiration. Still, it is a common day for the Finnish to get married or engaged
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Iran:
Date: 5th day of Esfand in the Solar Hejri, February 24th, 2015
In Iran, the Sepandarmazgan, or ‘Earth’s Guardian Angel,’ originated
from the deity Spandarmad in the 20th century B.C. Spandarmad is said to
have been the protector of the Earth and the ‘good, chaste and
beneficent wife who loves her husband.’
According to the deity, the festival used to be dedicated
specifically to women, and men would hand-craft them presents
symbolizing their love. Today, it is a celebration of women, adoration,
and earth. It is a festival where people express love
towards their mothers and wives. Mothers, who symbolize the nurturing
of earth and all of it’s land, animal, and creatures, are given willows
and other gifts by their children and husbands.
Silvia’s dream artified by Egle
Israel:
Date: 15th of the month Av, July 30th, 2015
In Israel, the Jewish ancient tradition of Tu B’Av has remained
partially intact and has also been transformed to encompass customs of
the Western world’s Valentines Day. In ancient times girls would wear
white dresses and dance in the vineyards as a ceremony of love. Today,
Tu B’Av is celebrated as a second holiday of love (after Valentines Day)
by secular people. While Israelis celebrate Valentine’s Day the same
way any Western country would, with flowers and gifts, Tu’ B’Av is
treated as less of a commercial holiday and more of a day for grandiose actions
of commitment and love. In modern Israeli culture Tu B’Av is a popular
day to pronounce love, propose marriage and give gifts like cards or
flowers.
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Japan:
Date: March 14th, 2015, ‘White Day’
The Japanese celebrate Valentines Day the same way Americans do.
However, on this day women give chocolate to men rather than the
common-place tradition of men gifting women
with tokens of love. This is rumored to be a tradition which originated
from a translation error of a chocolate company during the initial
campaigns marketing Valentines Day. It is customary for working women to
give chocolate to their co-workers. In Japan, gifts such as greeting
cards, candies, flowers, or dinner dates are uncommon, and most of the
activity is about giving the right amount of chocolate to each personal
co-worker.
Unpopular co-workers receive only ‘obligatory’ sweets or cheap
chocolate. This contrasts with honmei-choko ‘favorite chocolate.’ This
chocolate is given to a loved one. It is also customary for younger
girls to give chocolate to friends.
To combat the lack of gifts for women the Japanese National
Confectionery Industry Association launched a campaign to make March
14th a ‘reply day’ also known as ‘White Day’ to resemble the white
chocolate that is given to women. On this day men return the favor by
giving chocolates to all of the women who gave them sweets on
Valentine’s Day. This day is termed ‘White Day’ for the color of the
chocolates being offered.
On White Day men must return gifts that are at least two or three
times more valuable than the gifts they received on Valentine’s Day so
not to be perceived as placing themselves in a position of superiority.
Returning a present of equal value is considered to indicate an undercut
to the relationship.
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Singapore:
Date: February 14th, 2015
Singaporeans celebrate Valentines day in essentially the same way as
all other Western countries: flowers, chocolates, nice dinner, and
jewelry. However, Singaporeans are remarkable in that they are amongst
the biggest spenders on Valentine’s Day. Though this small country has
only been celebrating since their Independence in 1956, it is reported
that 60% of Singaporeans claim that they spend between $100 and $500 on gifts…during the season leading up to Valentines Day!
Lynda’s dream artified by Munkyeong
South Korea:
Date: April 14th, 2015, ‘Black Day’
South Koreans use Valentines Day as a day to mourn the single life.
If they are in a relation, they celebrate similarly to the Japanese:
women give chocolate to men on February 14th, and then the men reply by
gifting candy to women a month later (White Day). The outstanding
difference between South Korean tradition and Japanese tradition comes
on April 14th. This day is considered Black Day for those who did not
receive anything on Valentines Day or White Day. These bachelors and
bachelorettes convene at Chinese restaurants to eat black noodles and
‘mourn’ their singleness.
For Koreans the 14th of every month symbolizes a reason to celebrate
love. From January to December they have: Candle Day, Valentine’s Day,
White Day, Black Day, Rose Day, Kiss Day, Silver Day, Green Day, Music
Day, Wine Day, Movie Day, and Hug Day. Each day is used to commemorate love, so there are many opportunities for Koreans to make up for ‘Black Day.’
Mark’s dream artified by Julianna
Wales :
Date: January 25th, 2015
Dydd Santes Dwynwen, the Welsh day of love, is based on an oral tale
dating back to the 5th Century. As the tale goes, beautiful Dwynwen fell
in love with Maelon Dafodrill, but for an undisclosed reason they
remained estranged lovers. A few rumored reasons include the rape of
Dwynwen by Maelon, her father’s forbiddance of the pair to marry, her
father’s promise of her hand to another suitor. Dwywen desperately
wishes to fall out of love with Maelon as she cannot manage the sorrow
of life without him.
Dwywen falls asleep in the woods and is visited by an angel who
appears carrying a sweet potion concocted to erase her memory of Maelon
and to turn him into a block of ice. God then grants Dwywen three
wishes. First she wishes that Maelon be thawed, second that God fulfill
the
wishes and dreams
of all true lovers, and third that she should never be married. All
three wishes are granted, and as repayment to God Dwynwen devotes
herself to His service by becoming a nun.
Although still not as popular as Valentine’s Day, Dwynwen’s Day is
becoming more common among Welsh Citizens. Dwynwen’s Day gained momentum
in 2003 when the Welsh Language Board teamed up with Tesco (a UK
grocery chain) to distribute 50,000 free Dwynwen’s day cards in all 43
of its Welsh stores.
Paola’s dream artified by Rachel
Catalonia:
Date: April 23rd, 2015
Sant Jordi Festival is the most
romantic holiday
of all of Barcelona’s celebrations. Saint Jordi Festival is a
celebration of the Saint George, the chivalrous patron saint of
Catalonia. The tale goes that Saint George rescued a Princess from the
dragon, bringing her a delicate rose to commemorate his undying devotion
to her. The tradition of woman giving her beloved a book is said to be
rooted in commemorating the death of Cervantes, the great Spanish author
of
Don Quixote, which falls on April 23rd.
This holiday is much more symbolic than cards and candy, it is a
celebration of both culture and love. Barcelona’s tradition is for the
lady to offer her counterpart a book in return for a rose. The two
lovers stroll the Boulevards, perusing the book carts which mark every
corner, looking for the most exquisite read to compliment this special
day. During Saint Jordi Festival authors line the boulevards, signing
their books for blushing women and doting men, with the smell of roses
lingering in the air.
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