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วันอังคารที่ 10 กุมภาพันธ์ พ.ศ. 2558

9 fascinating celebrations of love from around the world

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 For some it means chocolates or flowers and for others it means black noodles or book signings. Either way, most countries have given at least one day a year to the best feeling there is, Love! Here is Dreame’s round-up of the most fascinating and adorable celebrations of love around the world.

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China: Date: 7th day of 7th month on the Chinese Calendar, August 20th, 2015

The Qixi Festival, “Chinese Valentine’s Day, “ celebrates a day remembering a famous cowherder, Niu Lang, and a weaving maid, Zhi Nu, were finally allowed to be together after a tumultuous courtship. It is a romantic tale of kindred hearts, a symbolic story for the celebration of love.

In Chinese culture, there is an observance for lovers, called ‘The Night of Sevens.’ According to the legend, the Cowherd star and the Weaver Maid star are separated by the Milky Way but are allowed to meet by crossing the stars only on the 7th day of the 7th month of the Chinese calendar.

Customs include women preparing delicious fruits to offer Zhi Nu, widely regarded as a beautiful women who is apt at sewing, in order to be endowed with the masterly sewing skill. Women are also hoping to be granted with a sweet love like Zhi Nu. The Elderly often orally transpose this tale of love to the young. While this legend is still known in rural towns, it is considered archaic in China’s cities.

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Finland:
Date: February 14th, 2015

Ystävänpäivä “friends day” celebrating your friends. It is not romantic in nature. Its core value lies in the celebration of friends. Rather than gifting chocolates and cards to a significant other, you spend the day showering your friends with gifts to show your love and admiration. Still, it is a common day for the Finnish to get married or engaged


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Iran:
Date: 5th day of Esfand in the Solar Hejri, February 24th, 2015

In Iran, the Sepandarmazgan, or ‘Earth’s Guardian Angel,’ originated from the deity Spandarmad in the 20th century B.C. Spandarmad is said to have been the protector of the Earth and the ‘good, chaste and beneficent wife who loves her husband.’
According to the deity, the festival used to be dedicated specifically to women, and men would hand-craft them presents symbolizing their love. Today, it is a celebration of women, adoration, and earth. It is a festival where people express love towards their mothers and wives. Mothers, who symbolize the nurturing of earth and all of it’s land, animal, and creatures, are given willows and other gifts by their children and husbands.


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Israel:
Date: 15th of the month Av, July 30th, 2015

In Israel, the Jewish ancient tradition of Tu B’Av has remained partially intact and has also been transformed to encompass customs of the Western world’s Valentines Day. In ancient times girls would wear white dresses and dance in the vineyards as a ceremony of love. Today, Tu B’Av is celebrated as a second holiday of love (after Valentines Day) by secular people. While Israelis celebrate Valentine’s Day the same way any Western country would, with flowers and gifts, Tu’ B’Av is treated as less of a commercial holiday and more of a day for grandiose actions of commitment and love. In modern Israeli culture Tu B’Av is a popular day to pronounce love, propose marriage and give gifts like cards or flowers.

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Japan:
Date: March 14th, 2015, ‘White Day’

The Japanese celebrate Valentines Day the same way Americans do. However, on this day women give chocolate to men rather than the common-place tradition of men gifting women with tokens of love. This is rumored to be a tradition which originated from a translation error of a chocolate company during the initial campaigns marketing Valentines Day. It is customary for working women to give chocolate to their co-workers. In Japan, gifts such as greeting cards, candies, flowers, or dinner dates are uncommon, and most of the activity is about giving the right amount of chocolate to each personal co-worker.
Unpopular co-workers receive only ‘obligatory’ sweets or cheap chocolate. This contrasts with honmei-choko ‘favorite chocolate.’ This chocolate is given to a loved one. It is also customary for younger girls to give chocolate to friends.

To combat the lack of gifts for women the Japanese National Confectionery Industry Association launched a campaign to make March 14th a ‘reply day’ also known as ‘White Day’ to resemble the white chocolate that is given to women. On this day men return the favor by giving chocolates to all of the women who gave them sweets on Valentine’s Day. This day is termed  ‘White Day’ for the color of the chocolates being offered.


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On White Day men must return gifts that are at least two or three times more valuable than the gifts they received on Valentine’s Day so not to be perceived as placing themselves in a position of superiority. Returning a present of equal value is considered to indicate an undercut to the relationship.

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Singapore:
Date: February 14th, 2015

Singaporeans celebrate Valentines day in essentially the same way as all other Western countries: flowers, chocolates, nice dinner, and jewelry. However, Singaporeans are remarkable in that they are amongst the biggest spenders on Valentine’s Day. Though this small country has only been celebrating since their Independence in 1956, it is reported that 60% of Singaporeans claim that they spend between $100 and $500 on gifts…during the season leading up to Valentines Day!

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South Korea:
Date: April 14th, 2015, ‘Black Day’

South Koreans use Valentines Day as a day to mourn the single life. If they are in a relation, they celebrate similarly to the Japanese: women give chocolate to men on February 14th, and then the men reply by gifting candy to women a month later (White Day). The outstanding difference between South Korean tradition and Japanese tradition comes on April 14th. This day is considered Black Day for those who did not receive anything on Valentines Day or White Day.  These bachelors and bachelorettes convene at Chinese restaurants to eat black noodles and ‘mourn’ their singleness.

For Koreans the 14th of every month symbolizes a reason to celebrate love. From January to December they have: Candle Day, Valentine’s Day, White Day, Black Day, Rose Day, Kiss Day, Silver Day, Green Day, Music Day, Wine Day, Movie Day, and Hug Day. Each day is used to commemorate love, so there are many opportunities for Koreans to make up for ‘Black Day.’
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Wales :
Date: January 25th, 2015

Dydd Santes Dwynwen, the Welsh day of love, is based on an oral tale dating back to the 5th Century. As the tale goes, beautiful Dwynwen fell in love with Maelon Dafodrill, but for an undisclosed reason they remained estranged lovers. A few rumored reasons include the rape of Dwynwen by Maelon, her father’s forbiddance of the pair to marry, her father’s promise of her hand to another suitor. Dwywen desperately wishes to fall out of love with Maelon as she cannot manage the sorrow of life without him.
Dwywen falls asleep in the woods and is visited by an angel who appears carrying a sweet potion concocted to erase her memory of Maelon and to turn him into a block of ice.  God then grants Dwywen three wishes. First she wishes that Maelon be thawed, second that God fulfill the wishes and dreams of all true lovers, and third that she should never be married. All three wishes are granted, and as repayment to God Dwynwen  devotes herself to His service by becoming a nun.
Although still not as popular as Valentine’s Day, Dwynwen’s Day is becoming more common among Welsh Citizens. Dwynwen’s Day gained momentum in 2003 when the Welsh Language Board teamed up with Tesco (a UK grocery chain) to distribute 50,000 free Dwynwen’s day cards in all 43 of its Welsh stores.
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Catalonia:
Date: April 23rd, 2015

Sant Jordi Festival is the most romantic holiday of all of Barcelona’s celebrations. Saint Jordi Festival is a celebration of  the Saint George, the chivalrous patron saint of Catalonia. The tale goes that Saint George rescued a Princess from the dragon, bringing her a delicate rose to commemorate his undying devotion to her. The tradition of woman giving her beloved a book is said to be rooted in commemorating the death of Cervantes, the great Spanish author of Don Quixote, which falls on April 23rd.

This holiday is much more symbolic than cards and candy, it is a celebration of both culture and love. Barcelona’s tradition is for the lady to offer her counterpart a book in return for a rose. The two lovers stroll the Boulevards, perusing the book carts which mark every corner, looking for the most exquisite read to compliment this special day. During Saint Jordi Festival authors line the boulevards, signing their books for blushing women and doting men, with the smell of roses lingering in the air.

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วันจันทร์ที่ 9 กุมภาพันธ์ พ.ศ. 2558

9 Fabulously Unconventional Valentine's Day Ideas

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Tired of fancy dinners, chocolates and roses? Here are a few unusual Valentine's Day ideas.
Like birthdays, Valentine's Day celebrations become repetitive after a few years. If you've grown disenchanted with fancy dinners, chocolates and roses, worry not, because YourTango's rounded up a series of unconventional Valentine's Day ideas to combat the season's predictability. After all, what's romance without a little adventure?

1. Get cultured. Every culture celebrates the day of love a little differently. For instance, in Japan, women give men chocolates on February 14th, while some parts of Britain serve buns baked with caraway seeds and raisins. After checking out YourTango's feature on Valentine's Day around the world, try mixing a couple of fun new traditions into your date night.
2. Throw a Quirkyalone Day party. As much as we love batting heart-shaped piñatas during "Singles Awareness" parties, we'll concede that hating Valentine's Day can be just as trite and obnoxious as the day itself. Instead of throwing an anti-Valentine's party, participate in International Quirkyalone Day, where singles around the world throw feel-good parties celebrating empowerment, romance and gratitude. Sometimes, these get-togethers encourage mingling; other times, they're just an excuse to enjoy Valentine's Day without the collective self-pity that often accompanies other singles' parties. For ideas, check out the movement's website, which recommends hosting an event at a public place, such as a library, and advertising for it a few weeks ahead of time on Craigslist or Flavorpill.

3. Do touristy things in your own town. Since plenty of people already dismiss Valentine's Day as corny, plan a few touristy activities that you and your honey have never gotten around to doing, and don't be embarrassed to take a zillion couple-y pictures while visiting those attractions. For example, if you live in New York City, ride a carriage through Central Park, have dinner at Serendipity, and play arcade games at Dave & Buster's in Times Square. Actually sounds pretty romantic, eh?

4. Have a group date at someone's house. Gather a bunch of people for a stay-at-home group date and split the duties. For instance, the men buy flowers, cook and serve the women dinner, while the women plan games, decorate or provide gifts (we suggest baked goods!). Keep in mind that if your party consists of both singles and couples, there should be an even number of single men and women so that no one ends up feeling like a third wheel.

5. Volunteer. Valentine's Day is a celebration of love, so consider branching out from romance into charity and friendship. Volunteer at a soup kitchen, send flowers to nursing home residents, or check online listings for Valentine-themed fundraisers for reputable non-profits. Contact local women's and domestic violence shelters to ask how you can best show love to those who live and work there. Baking cookies or sending letters of appreciation to caregivers can make all the difference for people who have suffered because of corrupted relationships.

6. DIY your gift. By do-it-yourself, we don't just mean cooking dinner and making mix a CD. Scout around for a personalize present she won't expect. For instance, Blends For Friends, creates a blend of loose leaf tea based on the recipient's personality. Simply provide your S.O.'s date of birth, hobbies, personality and physical appearance and see what the service comes up with once the box arrives in the mail. Or put a contemporary spin on homemade scrapbooks, by using Blurb.com to compile a book of love poems, photographs or literary passages that describe your relationship.

7. Have a date at the dog park. A global poll conducted by Reuters/Ipsos revealed that one in five people would rather spend Valentine's Day with their pet than a partner. If you're having a hard time picking between the two, spend the afternoon at a local pet park before hitting the town on date night. Or, if you're single, forego the ice cream-laden night alone and take Fido out to play in your city's dog run. Who knows, you might just meet the dog-lover of your dreams.

8. Celebrate on a different day. Restaurants sure are expensive and crowded on Valentine's Day, so postpone your date night to February 15th and spend the holiday itself indoors, relaxing with takeout and a couple of romantic movies. Go all-out the following night with bouquets and a reservation at a classy restaurant you've always wanted to try.
9. Give an alternative bouquet. Roses may be the symbol of love, but they're also a little generic. If your lady's down with non-traditional presents, try substituting roses—heck, even flowers—with a different kind of "bouquet." Send a potted plant, a bonsai or even a miniature tree to her home or workplace. If she's got a sweet tooth, send her a candy bouquet, and if you're good with crafts, make flower bouquet using origami.



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